影名: 東京タワー～オカンとボクと、時々、オトン～



              Since we have not and r not going to commit suicide, we should get along with the world in a harmonious
            way.The world is not as big as we imagined. It's just like a person, with emotions. keeps us at an arm's
            length,but will follow us for all lifelong.At the same time, it decides everything.Living with it is so
            arduous that we sometimes forget how strong we are.

              I can't remember when i bought the novel "TOKYO TOWER". Or maybe I just forgot it before I even cracked
            it open.When i watch the joe's movie version,the story said hajime maside to me, and (dozo)yorosiku me.
            I wanted to stop watching halfway through. Obviously the story was attempting a hip narration about
            sensibility.The reason why I kept watching was joe. I want to have someone's haircut and turned him look 
            like joe in university. Imagining all these,I went on watching. Though this character serves only as a foil
            to his mother.

               The mother is tolerant and tough.The ultimate love humanistic makes the role brilliant, even if she's
            somewhat simple. The inconsistent qualities modelled her a gifted mother,a naturally gifted mother.  
            She is a borned genius mother. She gives and takes from the world, in a way that we should say appropriate. 
            I feel not all mothers can assume responsibilities as she does.Be a real and brave human,and then a real
            and brave mother. Not everyone borns to be great, but one can learn to be great.Furthermore, on the visible
            surface, greatness often appears mundane and ordinary..So please treat yourself well, because how you treat
            yourself equals to how you treat the world. Life is built up with things you take and give. 

               So get along with the world, in a harmonious way.




                　既然我们出生了又不选择强行自我了结,那么剩下的事便是和世界好好相处.世界不大,也就是一个情绪化的人,他若即
              若离,却一辈子和你如形随影. 他还是个诡异的魔术师,他有诡异的主动权,一个不小心,你随时彻底茫然于他的迷阵中.他
              如此强盛,以至于有时我们忘记了自己可以有多强大.
　　
　　
　         　<<东京塔>>的小说不知道何年何月已经买过,我若不是失去记忆,就肯定是在没看之前就把书弄丢了.因为直到今天看到小田
             切让的电影版本,我也觉得剧情是hajime maside(初次见面).于是它果然dozo yorosiku(多多关照)了一把.
　　
　　
　　          看到一半的时候我已想关掉画面去做点别的事,不难发现这是那种地道的走常规路线的重磅情感片,难免有点闷,本看个小片
              儿就为了打发无聊,它怎么能够让我越来越无聊呢?!感谢小田给我坚持下去的理由.因为我正盘算如何亲手为某人剪一个雅
              也大学时期的发型.我一边幻想这个,一边继续看了下去.尽管小田在片中角色的最大功能就是烘托他的母亲.
　　
　　
　　
　         　母亲宽容而坚强,人性最根源的爱,最伟大的爱,让这角色闪闪发光.尽管她是如此平凡,亲切,简单,质朴;这些矛盾的特质塑造
             了一位天才母亲.对,她不是任何别的天才,她就是一个当母亲的天才.她对世界的施与受那么得当,那么恰如其分,全因为她的
             人性有着坚毅的平衡.那不是每一个当上母亲的人都可以做到的,也许我不应该比较母亲身份之人，而是一个最基本单位的 
             人.母亲的角色只是她对待世界的方式的诠释之一,很可能是最重要的诠释.成为真善美而勇敢的人，才可能成为真善美而勇
             敢的母亲.这是"她"儿子最应该学习的.当然我们很多意识是后天成熟过程中养成的,这其实等于给了我们一个机会,我们不是
             天生伟大,但我们有机会成就伟大.
　　
　　         而伟大的可寻表象往往是最平凡的.对待自己的方式包含在对待世界的方式之中,生活的前进在于对世界的取与舍,就请与世
             界好好相处吧.